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glass soda bottles |
So, getting back to my brother, I dedicate this piece to our recent and in person conversation by sharing some of our fond memories. What I was surprised to learn is how much of what we talked and laughed about all came back to food. We began with the soda and peanuts. Even as a young child, the first time I was told to pour my peanuts into my soda bottle, I thought it was a bad idea. However, doing so provided us kids with fizzy, sweet and salty slurps which we enjoyed for a while. (We did not continue the habit very long.) Then next was the Nab (shortened from Nabisco) which became the name for a cracker/peanut butter packet first made by this company in 1924. (See link below) When my brother and I were young, a "Nab" could be the cracker packet, or something else that more or less held you over until dinner. ( www.southernfoodways.org/a-nab-is-a-nab/ ) (Please remember if I provide a link in an article, it is only to share information. I do not benefit from doing so in any way.)
We reminisced about being invited INSIDE our neighbor's house on Halloween to choose homemade treats directly from the platters on their dining room table. I remember the elderly couple next door offered the best frosted brownies ever! I chose a brownie once and it was wrapped in a piece of waxed paper and handed to me. I did not make it home with that brownie!
Also special were our grandma's caramel apples.
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Caramel apple |
I remember coming home from school and watching her melt the caramel, put the popsicle sticks in the apples and dunk them in the gooey sweet concoction melting in the top of her double boiler. They were sticky and swell, but also a sure fire way to get us to eat a red delicious apple. Smart grandma!
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Pecans |
We also talked about being glad that we learned to eat certain kinds of vegetables because they were prevalent. My brother's favorites then and now were the small legumes: field peas, crowder peas, black eyed peas, and purple hull peas. Then there were butter beans or limas, whether small or large, speckled, white, or green. He still loves the peas.
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Crowder peas |
There was another time, he reminded me, that we ate Sunday dinner picnic style on the floor of my parents' bedroom. Unusual I guess, but it was summer and they had just installed a brand new window unit air conditioner. Pretty smart idea on a hot day and a fun change of pace.
Outside of food, I could tell this next memory was a favorite of his. My brother referred to it as the infamous ride through the yard. Our sister was near driving age at the time, and as yet without her license. However, she talked my brother into riding with her through the yard in our dad's old Nash Rambler. The car was parked in our driveway in a spot at the front of the house, with the front end headed toward our side yard. She, with my brother in tow, basically drove the remaining distance across the front yard, made a right and headed down the far side of our pecan trees into the back yard (where our mom was sitting in a lawn chair reading the paper). She turned around the farthest tree and they headed back up the other side of the yard, returning to where they initiated the ride. I was in the back yard playing and saw the car; my sister holding the wheel and my brother with his eyes wide and holding on. All I could do was stand there with my mouth open. Mama jumped up and threw her paper in the air. To my sister's credit however, she didn't hit anything and both of them survived their wild ride!
Many Saturday nights were spent in front of the television with out entire family. Watching tv when we were very young was more or less an event. We would sometimes invite a particular family over from our neighborhood to watch with us. They would enter our home with a freshly baked treat or two; something usually warm from the oven or just frosted. And, you could always tell they had changed into nicer, clean clothes for the visit. Programming would start with "the Lawrence Welk Show." It was a musical variety show with singing and dancing and Mr. Welk conducting his orchestra. I believe now watching this show helped me to appreciate different musical styles. The latest program of the night would be the western show, "Bonanza," before it moved to Sunday night or "Gunsmoke." I remember several times falling asleep before the evening was over. I wish I had mentioned to my brother how we used to play a game where one of us would hum the theme song to a television program and the other would try to guess the name. The theme to "Bonanza" was always part of the game.
We had the childhood where we knew our neighbors and walked to and from elementary school. Sometimes my brother would play catch in the front yard with our dad, sometimes Mama instead. He also remembers when he was a little too close to the house when he threw the ball! But he did bring up when all five of us would play baseball after supper using the pecan trees as bases. Now that was fun. Our dad would pitch and we probably had more than enough chances to hit the ball because he was so patient.
So thanks for the memories, brother. Here's wishing at least a day of reminiscing for all of you!